A Thought and Solace

Sarah Ann linked a particular talk from Pres. Uchtdorf on her blog. I read it and found something in it that I've never heard anyone speak of before, yet it has personal application for me and some difficulties I have struggled with during my time as an adult member of the church.
He was addressing the men of the church in this talk, but, as we know, all scripture can be applied personally: male or female. He states, "I believe that the Lord has a certain calling for every man. Sometimes He grants spiritual promptings telling us that we are worthy to receive certain callings. This is a spiritual blessing, a tender mercy from God.
But sometimes we do not hear the rest of what the Lord is telling us. “Although you are worthy to serve in this position,” He may say, “this is not my calling for you. It is my desire instead that you lift where you stand.” God knows what is best for us."

There is no "heirarchy" of callings in the church, although some feel this way. The reason one individual is chosen over another is not to be from personal preference or understanding. Rather, each servant is chosen for the particular need at that time; and sometimes the need is for that person to grow from service in that calling. When we think that we are better than another by being called to any calling (perhaps leadership roles), we then are demonstrating pride and lifting ourselves above our brothers and sisters, but only in our own mind. In fact, Pres. Uchtdorf refers to these individuals as seeking a crown. On the other hand, neither should we avoid opportunities to serve and grow. DO seek personal revelation when a calling is extended. This will enable you to begin serving by relying on the Lord for confidence to serve Him and our fellow man in that capacity.
Every righteous individual will have the aptitude to serve in any calling of the church (though, certain roles do have specific requirements). However, only the Lord knows who should serve where and when at any given point in time. Our further duty, then, is to pray also for those who are called and truly support and sustain them in their callings.