Different Learning Styles

I always hear tales of how the oldest child is always more reserved and usually more obedient and wanting to please the parents while the second child is less reserved and has more of a mind of their own. I have no idea how true this is because I think parenting styles change as a parent grows and matures and takes on more responsibilities with additional children. One thing I know for sure: there are no two children exactly alike. Right now I'm amazed at the different things that motivate my children to learn. The older seemed to go step by step in a "logical" or "traditional" order, focused on letters then phonics then reading. The second child thinks things through differently, or perhaps has even already discovered things without me noticing the first steps of learning. She has had zero interest in learning her letters. However, she is now standing behind me writing words, yes, actual words on the marker board. Of course, she doesn't know she is writing words until she says, "Look! What this say?" I'm amazed at the patterns she puts together to form words. Sure, not all of them are words, but she does write a LOT of them that are. I've now realized that I can't sit her down and teach her letter by letter. She prefers the excitement of already writing complete words, and so that is how I will continue to teach her. It's amazing to see the sparkle in her eyes when she discovers that not only has she learned a new letter, but can now write a word...and then she actually remembers those words and will rewrite them day after day. Have I mentioned that I love being a mom? This is an amazing experiement with which I am daily involved. I'm happy.